the groom’s survival guide: wedding day essentials
Your wedding day is one of the biggest moments of your life—and while a lot of the spotlight is often on the bride, grooms have their own prep to do. Between the vows, the suit, and everything in between, there are a few key things every groom should have on hand to keep the day smooth, stress-free, and unforgettable (in a good way).
Whether you're the kind of guy who likes to plan or you're just trying not to forget the rings, this guide has you covered. Below, you'll find a wedding day essentials checklist plus a one-week countdown to make sure nothing slips through the cracks. Let’s get you to the altar with confidence.
Wedding Day Essentials Every Groom Should Have
Wardrobe & Style:
Suit/Tuxedo (tailored and ready!)
Shirt (plus a backup)
Tie/Bow Tie + pocket square
Dress shoes (polished) + comfortable socks
Belt or suspenders
Cufflinks & watch
Undergarments (new or ironed undershirt, underwear)
Fragrance (not too strong!)
Grooming kit (razor, beard oil, comb, hair gel, etc.)
Emergency Kit:
Sewing kit (needle/thread in suit color, small scissors)
Stain remover pen
Breath mints or gum
Pain relievers (Advil, Tylenol)
Band-Aids (especially for shoes)
Deodorant
Lint roller
Documents & Details:
Vows (printed or on phone)
Rings (or entrust to best man)
Wedding itinerary/schedule
Vendor contact list
Extras:
Water bottle & snacks (protein bar, nuts)
Phone charger or portable charger
Cash/tips for vendors
Gifts for groomsmen (if planned)
Week-of Wedding To-Do List
Stay ahead of stress with this countdown checklist:
7-10 Days Before:
Final suit fitting (pick it up!)
Confirm groomsmen have their suits and accessories
Confirm honeymoon bookings (flights, hotel, etc.)
Get a fresh haircut/beard trim (not the day before)
Write your vows (if personalizing them)
Break in your dress shoes (wear them at home)
Final guest count check (if your job)
Confirm transportation (limo, shuttle, etc.)
3–5 Days Before:
Review the wedding day timeline
Check in with vendors (DJ, photographer, etc.)
Pack an emergency kit & wedding day bag
Prepare envelopes with vendor tips
Print out your vows + wedding day schedule
Create a “day-of” group chat for coordination
Assign someone to handle last-minute questions
Steam or iron your outfit
Drop off decor or items to the venue (if applicable)
Pack for the honeymoon if you’re leaving right after
1 Day Before:
Attend the rehearsal & dinner
Lay out all wedding day items
Get a good night’s sleep—phones off early!
Wedding Day Morning Checklist
Eat a healthy, energizing breakfast
Stay hydrated
Shower, shave, style hair
Put on full outfit (suit, tie, socks, shoes, cufflinks, etc.)
Light cologne & deodorant
Check in with best man + planner
Be early, stay calm, enjoy the moment
The week leading up to your wedding is bound to be a whirlwind—but a little preparation goes a long way. With your essentials packed and your to-do list checked off, you’ll be able to focus on what really matters: being present, enjoying the day, and soaking up every moment.
Remember, it’s not about perfection—it’s about being prepared so you can relax, look sharp, and show up as the best version of yourself. You’ve got this.
